What is wrong with me?

Never really dated before I married, guys never seemed interested.  But then I didn't get out much, as I was shy and had no confidence in myself.

I ended up marrying the first guy that actually noticed me and took the time to date me, but then look how that turned out!

I left him; and then thought maybe I don't need a man to enjoy life... convinced myself of this for five years, but really I was just lying to myself.  It was a sad and lonely time.

I don't think I'm a complicated person, I'm not high maintenance.  Who ever I date, it will be their choice of if they want anything to do with my kids.  I don't want to change anyone, they can carry on enjoying time with their mates and drinking etc, I just hope they will fit some time for me in their schedule.

I'm an easy to please person... all I want is a part time friend, boyfriend, movie watcher, cuddler, lover, holidaying partner, drinker, dancer and an all around have fun with type of guy.  (A partner in crime, like my girlfriends...but with the extra perks that the opposite sex gives.)

So why is it, that I can't find a guy to fill these simple needs?