So it's near the end of January 2015 and I get a Face Book friend request from a guy I have seen around for a couple of years. Never really found him attractive, he seemed grumpy all the time, but he was slowly getting easier to chat too. I thought ok, might as well befriend him. Next evening I get a Face Book message from him with just one word "Hi". I replied the following day and we chat a little. He was surprised to find out that I virtually had my kids 24/7 and that I never got out. His response was, "It's a shame I cant take u out for a drink some time?" I was like "Wow, getting out from these same four walls would be amazing, I just need to organise a babysitter." Seeing as it was too late for a babysitter right there and then, he ended up coming over to my place for a drink, we chatted and watched a movie. I was just so happy to finally have some male company, as I had forgotten what it was like to enjoy the company ...